When I taught 2nd grade there was a boy that I will never forget. There were many kids whose antics were lessons that live on in my memory, but this one fits more appropriately because his story is one that I use to pull my story back into focus. This boy was a typical city boy, he struggled with finishing work more than many others and was challenged to put his best effort into the work he did. I met with his mother many times to discuss these problems. She had two primary concerns.
- Education was important and the work that he did needed to be complete and of good quality.
- His social interests were leading toward gangs and she was very concerned about that.
We struggled the whole year. I can't say that it ever got easier, but he did it. I can tell you that he never got involved in a gang. He was killed by someone street racing, the week before Christmas his 3rd grade year.
This story is important to me because it set me on a course looking for meaning in what I do. I spent a great deal of time wondering why I should have tortured him with school work designed to improve his future when his future, in total, was comprised of about 205 days. My first answer to this quandary was that we can't know if these children will die early or not, but that wasn't enough. When another former student died suddenly in 7th grade and a friend lost a daughter, one or two years after her daughter graduated from high school. I began to consider that the time spent in school, even by these lives that ended before they could discover the future we were focused on, was not wasted. It occurred to me that these children had the opportunity in school to accomplish something. They knew what it felt like to have goals that required them to struggle beyond their expected limitations, and then succeed in accomplishing those goals. Perhaps that is just some sort of rationalization, but if it weren't for school, the boy that I told you about wouldn't have felt that success.
That founded a philosophy that still drives me in my job today. A sense of accomplishment goes beyond just good feelings surrounding the completion of a job. It is a driving force that moves men over dangerous mountain ranges, across great oceans, through the void of space, and into an uncertain future.
That narrative was only appropriate because this weeks study is over the importance of meaning in our lives and our jobs. Meaning can be discovered in the most desperate, hopeless situations and in the most comfortable, secure situations, but in all places you must pursue it.
When discussing meaning, Pink discusses the difference between a maze and a labyrinth. A maze is a puzzle with many dead end trails. It is designed to confuse and disorient those attempting to find a route through. A labyrinth by contrast is a single path following a pattern from the outside through to the center. The labyrinth is designed to be easy to follow. Many organizations use labyrinths to help people meditate. It seems that, put in left-brain terms, wandering a labyrinth occupies the left side of the brain just enough to release its grasp on the right side. The right side is then free to seek meaning in the situations that the labyrinth wanderers find themselves.
The meaning that I found has evolved a little bit as I have changed jobs, but it is still found in helping people grow and achieve. I have to be available to teachers and students to do that. I also have to study and attempt to keep up with current technology and trends. Read the Techlearning blog for more on that. I have to understand pedagogy and be willing to step into unfamiliar territory. Now the hard part, I have to work to build relationships; and the really hard part is that I have to find a way to correct inappropriate use or ignorant assumptions within those relationships. I have to get people to the point that they no longer need me and I have to accept it when they reach that point. That is all part of the meaning that I have found in my job.
Pink spent a good deal of time in chapter 9 exploring the importance of spirituality. I will spend very little time on it except for this brief observation. Spirituality, as it pertains to the work place, does seem to bring greater meaning and thus more productivity and innovation. This comes with a caveat just like the joking did in the chapter about play. Spirituality in the productive workplace cannot be judgmental or sensitive. People have to be respectful of others and accept that their beliefs may be different, or perhaps even nonexistent. They must also accept that other's displays of spirituality are not an attack, but simply a demonstrative act. The vast majority of the time at least one person in the office will break one of those requirements. Just one person will turn that opportunity into a poison with the potential to wreck the moral of an entire office. The only situation that I can imagine that would work is one where an entire staff comes together vicariously with the goal of creating a spiritually-enriching workplace. With the sensitivity involved in this issue, it would be a very rare situation where this occurred. But then we can dream, can't we?
Without meaning, our job is a maze. We go about our daily activities trying to avoid traps, and viewing any journey down a dead end path as wasted time. This occasionally creates more wasted time as we pause at the end of a dead end frustrated and tired of futile exercises. Meaning changes our job into a labyrinth. We follow the path toward that goal with the idea that we are learning as we go and everything we encounter is part of the journey. What meaning brings is a different perspective that can change what is perceived as a barrier into an opportunity. In the case of my search for meaning, it changed the perception of my job from something that cast a shadow over the few precious days of a young life, to an opportunity to help others experience growth and achievement. Is your job a maze or a labyrinth?
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